THE DO GOODER

Welcome to my 101st post! (I must be a slacker blogger if it has taken this long...)

Anyways, just wanted to share a new film I starred in called, THE DO GOODER, directed by my dear friends Emmy Pickett and Jimi Patterson. The film is very musical with keen attention to details, rhythm, timing and a core story. I have every song in it stuck in my head and the images (aside from me being a complete narcissist now) are also stuck in my head.

I hope you enjoy it, and tell Jimi and Emmy that you liked it by visiting their vimeo page and giving them loads of compliments.

Check it HERE.

CLICK IT. DO IT.

Love it. Also check out the trailer, which is equally entertaining HERE.

Waiting to Hear: Where are the voices of the Title IX Signatories?

Often times with feminist issues and leaders, if you are not with them, you are against them. Sometimes we fear to ask questions of our feminist leaders, for fear of seeming contrarian. I am not. However, Trying to speak out with an alternative vision for feminism can be particularly difficult for fear of being perceived as being a chauvinist, a self-hating feminist, or as Gloria Steinem said, “If you are not a feminist, you are a masochist.”

However, I am feminist. A large majority people in the Yale community, including myself, thought something had to be done about the way Yale handles cases of sexual harassment and assault. However, judging by the general sentiment I have experienced, many people in the Yale community are more frustrated than pleased with how the 16 signatories of the Title IX complaint went about their way in reforming Yale’s sexual grievance system in near secrecy, without any community lead up or dialogue before going to the Federal government.

I know that what the Title IX complaint is trying to do is reform the institutional inner workings of Yale's policies surrounding sexual harassment and assault. I agree something had to be done, but the fact that there was no public lead up calls into question some of the tactics they used. Of course they got results, but I often wonder at what expense? Especially when they have not voiced their complaints in the Yale student community as directly as they have to national news... The result is a lot of miscommunication on campus. A lot of frustration. A lot of unnecessary sexual jokes and at times, hostilities towards what has been called an "unnecessary and wasteful investigation." As I overheard someone at lunch the other day, this was an "Egregious waste of Federal spending on an investigation that could take place internally." I disagree that this was a waste of spending or a waste of time---something had to happen! However, I think that there has to be major clarifications about the nature of what the Title IX complaint entails, how it was created, etc.

Basically, what I hope and expect is that the public representatives of the Title IX Signatories step forward and explain directly to their peers the nature of their investigation and what it entails, and more importantly, why they chose the tactics they did with so little lead up. If we are to follow our feminist spearheads, we want to know what exactly they are saying.

I just really hope that the Yale community clarifies something that could be potentially divisive in the student body. Title IX can be a very positive step for change, so long as we accept it as such and not misconstrue or misconceive its implications.

Title IX: From a Closeted Feminist

Yale is undergoing a federal investigation by the Office of Civil Rights for violation of Title IX after a group of 16 Yale students went to the feds with complaints of sexual harassment and discrimination of the Yale campus, particularly after many incidents (like DKE shouting, "No means yes, Yes means Anal," the "Yale Sluts" incident done by frat boys, lack of more serious action in punishment to bring about a more equal and zero-tolerance environment for sexual discrimination). If found guilty, Yale could lose $500 million of federal funding under Title IX.

Just to bring attention for more news:

The Yale Herald

From Broad Recognition

The Yale Daily News

Article to be coming soon either here or in another outlet.

A few things to consider:

1) Why not a larger emphasis on the biggest problem: the internal labyrinth of the inadequate sexual grievance review system at Yale? (This is undergoing some reform, but still....)

2) Why not a lead-up on the part of those 16 girls? Why not a larger community movement This grievance comes out of no where, unbeknownst to the Yale community until the Feds were notified. We need a campus movement primarily before we bring in the Feds to solve our problems.

3) Hopefully this will lead to more investigations into sexual harassment/discrimination in hazing both at Yale and around the country. One can hope.

4) How does the average Yale woman feel about this? Most support some sort of reform and investigation, but tend to think we should go about this in a different way, with a lot more community dialog. (Just from talking to a lot of women on campus)

5) What will this do to Yale's Title IX funding?

After hibernation, I'm back: provoked by ROTC and Columbia

After a long hiatus filled with over 200 pages of writing and countless and thousands of pages of writing, I have decided to come back to my blog, which had remained silent since September. Sometimes that desire to speak out has higher risks to be judged more harshly when you are in Yale's environment. But here is to my commitment to greet success, failure, love and criticism. Here we go again. I mustn't relent!

What actually prompted my voice again was the egregious treatment of a wounded veteran and student at Columbia University.

Check it out:
Here
and Here

Now, if there is something that makes my blood boil, its discrimination against people of color (I say this to describe anyone who is not "white," as also proscribed by a Diversity conference I attended. I know the debate here too), gay, lesbian, transgendered, bi, women, or disabled. For a long time, my support of ROTC was tarnished by Don't Ask Don't Tell (DADT) but when it was repealed, I was overjoyed. For a traditionally "conservative" institution, this had to be a huge move that I applauded. To me, this was as enormous step in rights of LGBT peoples and towards social progress in America.

Now, if there is something else that makes my blood boil and churn, it is the mocking or disrespect towards a wounded soldier. Regardless of whether you support wars, conflicts, humanitarian missions, or not (or the other myriad of functions the military plays), a wounded man is a wounded man who suffered a lot to be alive where he is today. A veteran is not "THE MAN" but only a man who happens to have gone through a lot more than most Americans could handle. He is still probably going through things that he cannot handle without much difficulty and struggle. Shame on those disrespectful students who boo a wounded man.

Columbias students' signs "The Military Preys on Low Income Communities" might have a point or an observation. However, this should in no way be a source of legitimacy to ban ROTC, a source of bringing highly educated, talented, and schooled individuals into the army. If anything, the re-introduction of ROTC into the Ivy League could change the military's operation, its values, and its operations. An educated soldier is a force to be reckoned with, one who can (someday) even climb the ranks and gradually shift the military to a new and better place.

Protesting alone and insulting victims of war will not change the military but only create a larger problem. Dialogue from the outside, but also, more importantly, within the military is the MOST IMPORTANT. If anything, internal dialogue, brought about by educated persons from NYU, Davidson, Yale, University of Pittsburgh, Pomona, Harvard, Columbia, and everywhere around the country, is perhaps the most powerful force of change for the military, not the isolation of the military--- that would only create a larger gap between America and a military filled with old, stern, and hardened men and a bunch of "low income" victims.

I encourage ROTC on college campuses as a force of creating more dialogue, change, and progress in US Armed Forces.

I support our troops. I support our LGBT community. I support our women and men. I may not support certain military decisions.

I will scorn those who hiss at a gunshot victim who has put on a uniform for our country. I will equally scorn those who discriminate against any person of color, gender, sexual preference, or religious identity. Out of a sort of nausea, something inside of me really wants to say "Get Real" Columbia, but instead, I'll say, "Rethink this, Columbia." I know Yale has been.



Note: If my terminology, so important in civil and social rights, has in any way offended or has been misattributed, I apologize. I really did carefully consider my word choices. I hope my sister is proud.

Social Media, The Music Industry and Global Good: Chats with Lupe Fiasco, Kenna and more!

"the ink of a scholar is worth a thousand times more than the blood of a martyr

we came through the storm nooses on our necks
and a smallpox blanket to keep us warm
on a 747 on the pentagon lawn
wake up the alarm clock is connected to a bomb
anthrax lab on a w. Virginia farm
shorty ain't learned to walk already heavily armed
civilians and little children is especially harmed
camouflaged Torahs, Bibles and glorious qurans
the books that take you to heaven and let you meet the Lord there
have become misinterpreted, reasons for warfare
we read 'em with blind eyes I guarantee you there's more there" --Lupe Fiasco's "American Terrorist"

These don't seem to be the typical lyrics of a Grammy award winning rapper and hip hop artist. Believe it or not, they are. He is an artist dedicated to use his fame, power, art form, and media to promote social justice and change. Lord knows we need it. In my meeting with Lupe Fiasco at the UN Digital Media Lounge, I got to personally talk to him as well as listen to other people in the industry, including Kenna, Musician & Founder of Summit on the Summit, Simon Isaacs, VP Sustainability Marketing, ignition Azita Ardakani, Founder & Chief Idea Officer, Lovesocial Laura Checkoway, Contributing writer for RollingStone.com and former senior editor, Vibe, and Elizabeth Gore, Executive Director of Global Partnerships, UN Foundation. All of them had some new things to say about how Digital Media was being used in an age of media, music, pop culture, and fame--as well as an age of social justice, development, and equality/health (hopefully!)

Basically, Lupe and Kenna are both musicians who focus on using their fan base to make a change. The crew all together did a "Summit on the Summit" of Mt. Kilimanjaro, climbing the mountain to raise awareness for the needs of clean water in developing countries. Kenna is ethiopian and as a child his father came down with a water borne illness. Clean water is the single most important factor and needs in a lot of communities. They used digital media, blogposts, movies, and music to publicize their climb, which was a symbol of solidarity, persistence, and Africa.

Lupe is a rather coy, unassuming, hip kind of guy who likes to surround himself with people who "Take action and do cool shit." He described the climb as "a crucible made in the pits of hell. But I've always been attracted to doing something, you know what I'm saying? That don't make sense? You know ac-tiv-ity. Being active. People who are doing very positive things, world changing things. I'm opposed to throwing eggs as the popi, I'm just not down with that. I don't organize much, I just follow along with my friends." That isn't true according to Kenna though. Lupe organizes a lot! After Haiti, Lupe was immediately calling friends, organizing a group of people in order to cut a benefit song for Haiti.

Sometimes the UN doesn't catch on so quickly to the efforts that celebrities put out. When 21 million people were impacted in Pakistan from the recent atrocities, a lot of musicians came out wanting to do something, but the UN didn't move quickly enough to take advantage of that, says Elizabeth Gore, from the UN Foundation.

Hand in hand with this organizing is a positive note from the press. Laura Checkoway writes for Rollingstone, focusing on rappers, RB singers and hiphop artists who she things are "poets from the streets, speaking about social justice issues otherwise being ignored." Instead of talking or provoking gossip, she tries to create a more productive portrait. For instance, she writes a story about Lil'Wayne doing a story about the poverty he grew up in in New Orleans. How he was a weirdo and a shortie (not like the women!) and using his uniqueness to become a superstar (though he did write the infamous lyric in "A Milli" that goes "I'm a venereal disease like a menstrual bleed..."). Of course, as a writer she claims, most people want the dirt and fluff out of her. She has faced a lot of "barriers, trying to deliver the real."

Azita Ardakani, from Love Social, does a lot with social media. Given 48 hours after a crisis, she builds strategies for social media campaigns to get people to learn about the issue, donate, and be inspired to take further action. Its hard though. She claims that as social media grows and there is just so much of it, you have to be super creative in trying to get support, as everyone has a cause. "I don't even bother putting 'Donate' in some of the twitters or texts. I just gloss over that word myself."

All of these people have something to offer. Lupe says its particularly important for America to reach out. He says, "Most people who live in America have ties to other countries." Activating a little part of your fan base wherever that is is enough to raise awareness to the "common man. Humans, excuse me. I just hate when I say stuff like that." (he is very particular with words!). Lupe is a Muslim from Chicago, otherwise born as Wasalu Mohammad Jaco. He offered then what he called an anecdote from Islam. As he says, "Human beings are compassionate. From the pope to the poor man to the rich man, humans have an innate sense of compassion." He claims "My brand is about Social justice. Any time there is a movement to mute or censor or block what I'm doing, people talk. Child soldiers, tolerance, family, religions. I'm sayin it in my music. I hit those walls, and then it goes to the editorials."

Kenna has been going to the editorials lately. He was marching on Washington to pass the "water for the world act" which makes a commitment to helping to supply clean water to developing and needy nations. To Kenna, water is his "issue" he is most passionate about. "It comes back down to purpose at the end of the day, if you don't have a purpose then you are wandering aimlessly." He tried to climb Mt. Kilimanjaro 5 years ago alone and couldn't do it. It "kicked my ass" as he said. With "my allies, I could. What I learned is we won't reach out life's mountain top, our fight for good or change, we won't reach it by ourselves. We won't get to the top without each other."

Towards the end, we asked Lupe if he could give us a concluding anecdote. Lupe is a Muslim from Chicago, otherwise born as Wasalu Mohammad Jaco. He offered then what he called an anecdote from Islam."I'm a Muslim, so I'll give you one of those foundations from Islam. Its Remembrance. Reminder. Human beings are innately forgetful. Constantly remind yourself of what you are doing. Remember there are people below and above you."

When I got to talk to Lupe one on one without the others later on, I asked him if he thought his social justice messages got in the way of his art--a common issue in explicitly political art works. He said, "Naw. Pablo Picasso painted Guernica and it is one of the greatest pieces of art of all time. It was POLITICAL. It was all about social justice. So I say Guernica the World!"

Guernica the world. Not a bad idea. I hope he comes to see my play "War in Times of Love," which is all about post-conflict Balkans--politics and art!

Grassroots Girls Go Global and $40 BILLION CAMPAIGN!

5 Minutes to write until the next panel.... and GO!

CEO of Vivanista (a social network of philanthropists and fundraisers), Layne Gray, asked a panel of women involved in strategic, philanthropic, and aid agencies for women and children, "Its been 10 years since the Millennium Development Goals (MDGs) have been announced. We are still struggling with universal education (2) gender equality (3) child health (4) and maternal health (5). How do we amp up conversation about women's issues?"

With 5 years left to meet the UN MDGs, we do not have much time. At this moment, the photo in TIME of the Afghan women whose nose had been cut off pops into my head. Gender Equality for Afghanistan?

Four other women sit on the panel, clearly eager, angry, talented, and hopeful. They respond. Nainab Salibi goes first. She is the Founder of Women for Women International, who has been described as a new age Mother Theresa, only "better dressed." As an Iraqi whose father flew Saddam Hussein's private plane, she knows a thing or two about war. Her organization has touched 270,000 women and girls in conflict zones by providing access to education and scholarships, practical jobs, and other support to empower women in places like Bosnia, Afghanistan, Rwanda. By offering "Women to women" partnerships where a wealthier woman sponsors another woman in exchange for letters or photos, her organization creates hope for women (ranging from Bosnian rape camps to the hills in Afghanistan) who say, "I'm too hopeless to be helped." Zainab calls for "Humility and help, and a greater interaction between American women and women abroad." Right now, $0.02 of every $1.00 of aid goes to girls/women. She calls for amping up the March 8th World Women's Day in the US. She described Women's day in Bosnia as a time filled with flowers, where a Bosniak woman can hold the hand of a Serbian woman and say "Enough is enough." For Zainab, women in the US need to say, "Enough is enough" as well. "This is the women's and girl's century. We need to speak up and speak loud, get angry!"

Kimberly Perry, the Director of Girl Up as part of the UN Foundation's campaign to meet the MDGs, replies calmly, but boldly. She has faith in the generosity of American Girls and women, why she sponsors initiatives like "High $5" where youth can encourage the donation of $5 to the Foundation. Apparently, its really "cool." 53% of girls across America are willing to donate their own money to causes and hers is one of them. But is this enough?

Nancy Lublin, the CEO of DoSomething is feisty. Her organization has empowered over 1 million kids and teens to create projects that aid others abroad and at home. She says, "If you look on Google Analytics and research crisis stories on Tsunamis or Katrina, you don't get much." When women and girls depend on the connection and story and there is simply no story, how can they help? On top of that, 10 years after the MDGs, they have not been fulfilled. On TOP of that, organizations trying to meet the goals depend a lot on the generosity of "feisty, ambitious, and powerful" women and girls in America who donate $5 or $27 here or there. "Where is the corporate funding? 10 years after the MDGs, this is a global embarrassment! God is pissed. She's really mad!" Her call? Make the STORY! BLog! Get the word out. Her message? "25,000 girls under 15 will become child brides TODAY alone. Be pissed. Tweet it! Tell the story. Do Something!"

Nancy Zhang, a teen who is an International Trustee of Key Club international. She sees that the 250,000 members of Key Club International are mostly girls. As she says, "Girls want to be popular, without standing out too much." They like to do things in groups and collaborate. When the older women on the panel ask her if she can help carry out the MDGs, she replies "yes" confidence.


yet i'm sitting here. I like the hopeful women sitting in front of me and the work they do. Its really powerful and really effective. I've worked with something like Women for Women before, called Women for Afghan Women. I know they do good, effective, powerful work.

However, these women in front of me are all asking for a change in dialogue in order to help meet these MDGs. Has the dialogue changed? They are asking me (a woman) to get angry. To talk. To tell stories. Well, I'm here to tell stories. However, as I've mentioned in my blog before, I'm a born skeptic. Buzz words like "Green" or "Think Globally, Act Locally" and "Party for a Cause" make me a little anxious. How can "party for a cause" and dialogue alone 5 years before the MDGs must be met save the 8 million young children who die each year of preventable causes, including pneumonia, diarrhea, malaria, and tuberculosis? There has to be something big. Well maybe the prayers (and dialogue) of these women were answered, because this "something big" is coming today.

At 2:00 Ban Ki-Moon, the Secretary General of the UN is going to announce the $40 BILLION campaign for the Global Strategy for Women and Children's health and how we are going to meet the millennium goals.

MDG 4 calls for a two-thirds reduction in under-five mortality and MDG 5 calls for a three-quarters reduction in maternal mortality and universal access to reproductive health.

Ban Ki-Moon better offer a damn good strategy. He is making this skeptic believe.

Note: facts and figures from UN documents supplied by conference

Just arrived: UN Week's Digital Media Lounge

Never in my life have I seen so many bloggers in one room.

I'm here at 92Y, one of New York's largest community and cultural centers. Immediately, I'm directed towards a room with large double doors, where there a few hundred bloggers are holding mics up to each other's faces, interviewing Marianne Williamson, number one best selling author who had just spoken, and typing away at Twitter and blogger, facebook and more.

Now I'm off to listen to a "What girls can teach the world" panel. Kimberly Perry, director of Girl Up, Nancy Lublin CEO of DoSomething, Zainab Salibi, Founder of Women for Women International, Nancy Zhang, INternational Trustee, Key club teen, and Layne Gray, CEO of Vivanista.